PREMATURE EJACULATION – CORRECTING PROBLEMS 2

If he is a sensitive lover he realizes that his sexual dysfunction is diminishing his partner’s sexual pleasure. To delay his orgasm he asks her to ignore him while he tries to bring her to the edge of orgasm. Then, he reasons, he can insert his penis into her vagina in the hope that she will come before he does. Usually it does not work because her obvious arousal is a signal to him and he cannot stop himself coming prematurely.

This is the essence of his problem. He cannot prevent himself reaching the stage of sexual arousal when an orgasm is inevitable.

The second scenario is for the man to reduce his sexual anxiety by reducing his sexual activity. He argues that if he does not have sex, he will not ejaculate prematurely and will not feel he is a sexual failure.

The third scenario is one in which he becomes increasingly anxious, but he is uncertain what to do and is unable to talk with his sexual partner because of his inhibitions. To avoid increasing his anxiety he becomes impotent.

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